Break-ups in relationships are normal.However,they can be really painful,a pain that in most cases drive the involved parties into doing despicable things.On most occasions break-ups are caused by unfaithfulness,abuse,bad habits or conflicting goals

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Here are the 4 ways ex-lovers seek revenge after breakups.

Defamation

This is also known as ''Kuchoma Picha'' in the Sheng' world.

It is where either the man or the woman feels too hurt after a break-up and since they cannot reverse the situation,opt to go for the lose-lose option.

Therefore,don't be shocked to hear that you are weak in bed after a break-up with your girlfriend or wife,also anticipate rumors that you are a dirty woman who does not even know how to cook after breaking up with your man.

Taking away gifts

Mostly practiced by hurt men.

They decide to take away all the small gifts they bought you while the fire of love was still burning.

After the break-up,they come demanding for that bracelet,the pair of shoe and the dress as they complain and regret even buying you all that stuff.

Moving over to your best friend.

This is more of meant to demean you than love.It's aimed at showing you that they can always get what they want from whoever and that you are not any special.After the ordeal,they will try to ensure that you overhear them praising the new relationship saying tht they feel fer much better then when they were with you.

''Waaah,huyo dem ako fiti,si kama hii kiatu ingine hata haileti shangwe.!!''They will tell their friends loudly when they are aware you are around all in a bid to make you feel useless.

Silly fantasies 0n Social media

Others will take to Facebook to console themselves.This is very common among women,especially those who have been dumped and since they dont want to go down alone,they bet on making their ex's too feel the pinch.

The most common way is to take to a page where they know that the ex is a member and write a picture-less post:

''A day well spent with my new bae,love you forever mwaaaaaaaa!!!''followed by several kisses smileys to back it up.