Photo/Women HealthThere’s nothing as sexy as a girl who has it all together. Beauty check, fashion check, brains check, personality check, attitude check.
This kind of girl is unstoppable, unbreakable, unshakable, irresistible and irreplaceable. Girls envy her, men want to be with her and women want to be her.
She is the epitome of excellence in all she does. That is what every lady should strive to be. We are born that way but have let others make us believe otherwise.
I am not light skinned, am too fat, am too thin, am too short, am too tall are sorry excuses women continuously make in an effort to degrade themselves.
To be honest, it’s quite pathetic. That loser mentality is quite a turn-off and no one likes to be around a people who are always sorry for themselves. Pity parties don’t normally attract a lot of guests.
To be that girl starts with the right attitude. How do you view yourself? How the rest of the world takes you is a reflection of how you take yourself. No one is going to believe in you if you can’t believe in yourself.
No one loves a blonde. Every beauty needs a brain. You can’t look smart and not actually be smart. Intellectual prowess is an attribute every lady should strive to have. It’s not inborn, it’s actually made.
You have to constantly read material that builds on your intelligence. Indulge with people and talks that intellectually stimulate your reasoning capacity.
Try looking for solutions to problems people are facing. Everybody loves a solution giver and avoids a problem creator.
A woman is her own making. Her circumstances are her own creation. Her redemption is her own decision. Both ways life is a blank page and you write your own story.