Arguments are common in a relationship. But do you know they can help you to build a healthy relationship.
Here are benefits of arguments in a relationship.
1.Arguments help you to learn something from your partner.
Through arguments you may get to know the true colors of your partner. Is your partner short tempered? Does your partner stand to accept mistakes? Does your partner apologize?
All these virtues you can learn them through arguing.
2. Arguing help you to learn how to grow as a couple.
Once you are forced to face the problem head-on, you can acknowledge that you have successfully grown as an individual and as a couple. After navigating through several arguments with respect and empathy, you realize that you have created a space for you and your partner to be able to openly and honestly communicate with each other.
3. Arguments give platform to ask questions. Sometimes you feel some question may hurt your partner but in the middle of arguments you may ask such questions. Do so in a non-threatening way and make sure you let your partner know you’re asking because you’re having a hard time understanding the issue.
4. It can help you get the root of a problem. Whenever there is an argument there is something going wrong.Through arguments you aim to fix the cause of that problem. Also it makes your partner aware he is the cause of the problem and is able to rectify.
5.They help you to communicate.
Arguments help to break silence in most relationship. It also helps your partner to be open to you thus express his or her feelings.