A man and his woman in bed (photo/ blackdoctor.org)

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Do honest, understanding, genuine and thoughtful men exist? Maybe they do, and we call them gentlemen. But how gentle are they?  Not everyone is perfect. Everyone has his or her flaws and that should be understood. However, there are some men whose main aim in a woman is to manipulate her into having sex yet they quite know how wrong that is. These are some tricks men use to lure women into sleeping with them:

Buy you alcoholThis is a common trick men use to get you in bed whether you do it willingly or not. They will insist on one drink, and what follows is more and more. They may also go ahead and drug your drink then you will lose it all to them. It will then turn out to be “we were drunk” when the actual truth is that he knew what he was doing.

Use those precious three wordsHe will pretend to be your closest and caring friend and that he has no intentions of even making you his girlfriend. This one time you get too close to him and he actually confesses his love. Knowing well that he will confuse your feelings, he goes ahead to deceive you into doing it.

Tell you their problemsWomen are presumed to being good listeners and are easy to believe everything and sympathize. Men will always use these as an opportunity to get laid. He will come up with a sad story that will raise your emotions that you will feel like comforting him. That moment when you are so close to him and making body contacts, he will start caressing you and as you feel sorry for him you will fall in his trap.

Listen to youMen pretend to give you a listening ear and provide solutions for your problems and yet they know exactly what they want from you. When you feel so comfortable that you have found a shoulder to lean on, then he will keep comforting you when you become emotional and these will always lead to an intimate session that you will later regret especially when you learn that he was only after sex.