A comparison can lead to low self-esteem. [Photo/Thepgdc]For some reason, women all over the world seem to feel the need to constantly compare themselves to others. Comparing yourself to another person all it can do is make you feel bad about yourself and dent your self-esteem, which may already be low. Here are a few tips to help you with your self-esteemBuild your self-esteemThe happier and more content a person is, the less likely they are to want to constantly compare their life and circumstances with another person. If you have a healthy relationship with your own value as a woman and worth as a human being, then you won’t need to seek affirmation in comparisons with others.Stay groundedThe more inflated a person’s ego is, the more dangerous it can be if you compare yourself with somebody else to find that the results are not in your favor. Try and keep your jealousy at the minimum.Set small goalsIf you set small goals for yourself that you can realistically achieve, you won’t have to keep comparing yourself negatively to other women who seem to be able to breeze through life with no problem at all.Celebrate your winsTake the time to celebrate the achievements in your life, no matter how small they seem.The more you celebrate, the more your self-esteem will grow.Stay true to yourselfDon’t set out on a personal journey that you aren’t passionate about because you will only end up comparing yourself to people who are passionate about it, and you will be disheartened by your lack of progress compared to theirs.

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