Dealing with an immature adult can create constant conflict. [Photo/amazonaws.com]
We have met those adults who are like children trapped in a big person's body. It's nice for everyone to be youthful and playful but immaturity has nothing to do with being young at heart. We've all heard the phrase 'growing old is for everyone, but growing up is optional'. This means that if you're immature as an adult, you can do something about it. The hardest job is actually admitting that you need to work on a few things. Something about immaturity doesn't allow you to admit your mistakes. Denial is the game. Maybe you can start a different game. Admit your mistake and understand what you did wrong. Before you figure out how to sort out all your issues, be slow to blurt out and respond. Start processing things from within. Take a minute before acting as you normally do. Accept the corrections that you have received. If you've heard a million times that you say a lot of stupid things, you need to check it and work on it. Growing upstarts with will, if you have the will, it gets easy to start eliminating any childish behaviors. Spend time with men who act like it and see what they consider acceptable and what they don't find manly. Look at ladies with class and see what they deem respectable. You're your best ticket to acting with maturity.