Always understand that life has ups and down [Photo/zambianobserver]

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Rejection is a powerful state that needs a proper management. It can be processed in a healthier manner as it’s always easier said than done. The pain is unbearable and you do not think it will ever go away. Here are four ways to deal with non-acceptance from your loved ones

Understand that life is journey

Always understand that life has ups and down. Don’t be sad when your loved ones reject you. If she doesn’t like you back, accept and continue. It’s not the end of the world maybe she is opening a way for someone better than her in your life. Just be optimistic and don’t worry as this is life journey and its funny place to live.

Realize that he or she was not the one

It’s always hard to realize if you are dating the right person for you. The reality is always harsh as you have to get things to your hands. You have to understand that isn’t your fault to love and not be loved in return

Don’t live in fantasy world

Stop living in the world of imaginations. Fantasy life won’t give you the reality instead it will give you what you will never get. Live your own life and make it better for your future. Try and fin the new one keeping in mind that one day you will get your right person

Know that someone better is coming

Don’t shed tears for what has happened to you. Always be optimistic and be positive in thinking.  Never feel that you have to chase somebody so as to be loved. Always believe that you are going to find the real love one day.