A woman visiting a consultant. [Photo/innovation.sfts.edu]
Change is not always easy. We like it comfortable and undisturbed sometimes. But those cocoons are an enemy of growth. You need to work on your weaknesses. It is quite doable and all you need to do is be thorough. You need to first identify what shortcomings you have. There are a lot of demons that people deal with. It could be a short temper, poor social skills, too much drinking or poor financial planning. After identifying what ill you need to fight, you need a plan. A strategy to directly deal with your problem. It could be seeing a psychologist, avoiding what triggers your rage, reading a relevant book and applying the self-help and the kind.Tenacity is an important trait when working through an issue. It ensures that you don't stop. If it gets hard, which it often does, tenacity keeps you seeking results. Don't go for a quick fix. It only works for a short time, if it even works at all. You need to invest in a long term solution for your problem. Once you work on yourself, the new version of you is there to stay. As long as you're improving day by day, no matter how slightly, you're doing great! You can choose to seek professional help to deal with your issues.