Everyone has that one thing they would consider a damper side of their life. 

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Something they are sure that their partners won't be comfortable learning about. 

However, this dark side of life is relative as it varies across partners. 

In that case, what one considers a dark side might not likely sound the same to the next person.

For instance, when some men view a lady's past sexual life as a dark side of her life, some men care less about that. 

But with time, such comes to be known. 

Therefore, it is better to prepare your partner for such by actually disclosing it to them without no fear. 

This self-disclosure helps in strengthening the bond between partners and serves to build emotional maturity as well.

Below are two basic approaches you can adopt during such self-disclosure.

1.Communicate your exact feelings

When disclosing this, let your partner know what feeling pushed you to reveal everything.

 

How it would make you feel disclosing it and the feeling it would create if they accepted it. 

This will prepare your partner to receive the message with positivity hence have a positive feeling towards it. 

This will bring acceptance at the end of it.

2.Be open, frank and honest.

Make sure the information you are about to reveal is true no matter how embarrassing it might be, Being honest and admitting the existence of such life story helps build emotional maturity. 

When honest with your significant other it could as well lead them into revealing their dark side at the same time upon realising it is something normal to almost everyone.

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