If you’re hurt in love, it’s your lover’s responsibility to reassure you and help you feel better about the relationship. Well, that’s if your lover cares enough to see you happy. And likewise, it’s your responsibility to help your lover understand you and trust you when they feel threatened. Even in a happy relationship that’s stood the test of time for several years, trust issues could crop up out of nowhere, especially when an attractive new friend or secrecy enters the romance. There are many reasons why you may doubt your partner or have trust issues, but they usually fall under these 8 reasons.
1. You think your partner lies to you very often.
2. You think your partner lacks integrity. They’ve cheated on someone in an earlier relationship / You’ve cheated on someone and *knowing how easy it is to cheat* you assume your partner may be cheating behind your back too.
3. You don’t know much about your partner’s life and what they do when you aren’t around.
4. You don’t know your lover’s friends and their inside jokes which makes you feel insecure when they’re around.
5. Your partner is secretive. *locks their phone or deletes their messages often*
6. You feel threatened by your lover’s friendship with someone you don’t know well.
7. You’ve had bad experiences in love where an old lover has betrayed your trust.
8. Your partner just doesn’t share details about their life with you as much as you share yours with them.