There are several ways of knowing whether you are dating a player. Photo/singleblackmale.orgLadies, the best way to know that you are dealing with a player is to read the signs. Its actually really hard to deal with the fact that someone could be cheating on you or just playing with your emotions.
But its better to be sure than live with suspicions all your and letting a guy waste your time. Players will always be players.Here are a few things to help you know if your man is a player and not the one:Never callsIn this age and era, alot of people prefer to text than call. But trust me if that one special person loves you he will always want to hear your voice at least 3 times a day. If your boyfriend is always making excuses as to why he does not call and always claiming that he is busy that one is a player. Communication is key in a relationship.Lack of transparencySometimes its good to know and understand each other as to where your relationship stands. If he is never clear about what you are to him that that guy is just playing games with you sweetheart. He should make it clear that you are his girlfriend and is comfortable saying that.Obvious flirtingA little flirting is healthy for a relationship. But when it becomes too much and the guys is not afraid at all to do it in front of you then he is surely not serious with you. Also when you confront him about it and starts getting all defensive that guy has no feelings for you not to even care that you are hurt.PDAPublic display of affection. Its not all about making out in public but at least once in a while hold your hand and give you a peck on the cheek. If he never wants to do any of that once in a while in public then he might have done it with someone else and is afraid of being seen.Pictures of you two togetherAre there pictures of you two together?? Are you always the one who is putting up pictures on social websites? Then you need to question that. He may think that is something casual while you are busy pouring your hurt out there. He maybe just brushing off your relationship out there.Lots of female friendsHe may be charming, handsome and good with the ladies. He may end up doing this to get the ladies and you never know what he might be doing with them out there.Words and no actionIf your guy always knows what to say when you guys are having a problem then he may be playing you girl. He always has the words to make problems go away instead of arguing about it together and coming up with a decision.