A couple in bed illustration. [Photo/bustle.com]
It is a scientifically proven fact that men have an easier time reaching orgasm than women. It is also true that many men cannot last more than a few minutes on the ride without caving in and ‘coming’, to the horror and dissatisfaction of their partners.
Women tend to take quite some time before reaching peak arousal. To ensure you are not left hanging, here are a few tips that might help prolong the session.
Switch positions
If your man has that one position that gets him erupting, switch things up. Some positions are not ‘climax-friendly’ for the lady. Avoid doggy at all costs. Instead, go missionary or let the woman be on top.
Let him climax during foreplay
Give your man mind-blowing foreplay and let him climax. As you go ahead with the next phase (penetration), he will take quite some time before recharging and by the time he is ready to go again, you’ll have had your fill and will be ready to peak together.
Take it slow
The man should aim for a few thrusts per period of time. This should be gradually increased. If he feels the need to climax, he should stop and re-gain control. This should help him take some time before ending the show.
Use a condom
Many people who do not use condoms say that ‘it does not feel the same’. Well, that is the point. With a condom on, there will be reduced feeling and thus the guy will not rush to score.
Guide him to make you climax first
Technically, this tip does not really help the man, but instead helps the two of you. Tell him what you like most and let him do it to you with his hands or his mouth. This should get you, the lady, to reach full arousal and possibly climax even before the real deal is on. That way, when he rides you and climaxes, you'll both be satisfied customers.