A black couple.[Photo/weddingdigest]
Most of the time we generally have a huge lack of imagination when it comes to dating. You’re lucky if a guy invests in taking you to a nice restaurant for a meal. Most of the dates you find that one has been taken to the local pubs or the local bars.They may serve some roast meat and chips, but otherwise all you’re getting is alcohol and dust.
How is that a date? Or going to the disco, where you can barely hear each other speak, how is that a first date? Look for common interests.
Our museums, monuments and art galleries are gathering dust. Our picnic sites are empty. Take her somewhere nice to watch the sunset.
It would be good to avoid the photographs and recordings. In short do not do selfies, nude photos. This is because we are human beings and we lose things, we share them with other people, we post them on social media when we decide you have hurt us and we want revenge. If you still think it is a good idea, then see above and ask yourself if you are under the effect of a social lubricant.
Women need to understand the nature of men and men need to understand the nature of women. Then we can find the middle ground where we are all human beings and act like it.
Dear ladies, when invited to a man's house please don’t pretend that you think it is for tea. No matter how long it takes, you know very well that there is an intention to his pursuit.
So act like you know. As you take his money please be aware of the signals you are sending. If you do not really like him, don’t add insult to injury by first squeezing all you can out of him before you disappear.