The holy books say men like God are jealous. The worst part of the jealousy comes out when a woman you love truly moves with another man. How do you solve it when your wife is having an affair with another man? Some men take their wrath on the woman, divorcing her, beating her up and all those forms of revenge, name them.
Why should you revenge on somebody you love truly? The best way is to go for the man who did that for you, be it your friend, your neighbor, or any other man. The best ways to handle him for a revenge without breaking any law are:
Repairing your marriage
The man, especially if he knew your wife is married, wanted to break your marriage. He hates you, he wants to see you miserable with no wife so that you become the source of laughter for him. Make him feel the pinch by reviving your marriage again. Love your woman more.
Forgive and forget
Life is too short for you to hold grudges. It already happened. Just tell the man it is all well and life must continue. Forgiving and forgetting will let you free, you will be happy again. The man will keep on wondering why did not revenge. No peace of mind for him.
Sit back and let Karma take control
Yes. Not all wars are meant for you. Others are for the spirits maybe. What goes around comes around. If he is a married man then the same might happen to his wife. You never can tell.
Go for his woman
If his woman can accept your story then go for her, after all, you are all revenging the same character.
Let him have your wife
It is one of the best revenge indeed if your wife cheated on you, and at the end of it you lost the love on her the best revenge is to let the man have her.