Photo/Healthyblackwoman.com]Sometimes knowing whether someone is serious with you or not can be hard to tell. Being able to know that this person is not just leading you on is very hard. 

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Here is how to tell whether somebody os serious about you.He makes last minute plans. It is like you are always an option for them when they are bored. They will always wait for all their plans to bounce so that they ask you what you are up to or see if you can hang out with them.

Their future plans do not have you in the picture. They will always talk about what they plan on achieving or what they set out to accomplish but you will not be inclusive in the plan. When it comes to the present, they are often too busy for you unless of course, their intended plans do not go accordingly.

They won’t let you into their social lives as well as their family. You will never get the opportunity to be introduced to family or get to know them. When it comes to friends, he will try as much as possible to keep you away from them.