A man and a woman. [Photo/cosmopolitan.com]Being a rebound is one of the worst things that could ever possibly happen to anyone.

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It like you are just an item that is used to forget someone. Many at times, you meet someone and they seem interested in you while in fact they just want to use you to get over the person that hurt them.Here is how to tell that you are a rebound.

When this person starts talking to you, the conversation will always kind of end up on their exes, they never shut up about them. Either it is a comparison or telling you how they are heartbroken.They will always talk about their exes all the time which can be pretty annoying.

You guys get too comfortable too soon.You become exclusive almost instantly.Its only been a month or even less and they already want you to start dating.As good as it may sound, its too good to be true, even if you had an interest in this person, learn to question why things are suddenly moving so fast.

When it comes to the relationship, it is more about the sex other than being there for someone like a normal relationship would be.They never spend time with you except when they want to have sex, most of the time, they are calling you for a booty call.