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1. You’re making excuses for being treated badlyIf you are always trying to defend your suppose and having to find excuses to explain his bad behavior then you are being used. If you don't feel loved or you are not being treated nicely then that relationship is done. Everyone deserves all the best in a relationship. There is no need for you to pity the person for his bad behavior or say that stress may be the cause of it. Just let it go coz you are being used.2. They make you feel smallIn every relationship you should date your best friend. That one person who is there to support you in your dreams no matter how crazy they are. A person who will encourage you when you are down and someone you can rely on. Some one who lifts up your spirit even when sad. But if you find your self with a person who is constantly making you feel small, not supporting you and always lets you down, then you need to rethink about the relationship it may not be for you.3. Your friends and family are worriedThe reason it sometimes gets confusing is if people don’t want to see the signs and end up in a bit of denial. So if your friends and family are worried about you, you really should pay attention. They normally have a more objective view of the situation and they have your best interests at heart.4. Your needs aren’t being metWhen you are always there for them when they are sick and when its your turn they are nowhere to be found?Pay attention if you’re the one always making the effort. Whether you’ve been dating for five days or five years, it should still be a two-way street. 5. You’re not ok with how the relationship is definedHaving mutual respect means that you’re both ok with the dynamic between you. It doesn’t matter what the relationship looks like as something that’s casual and just about sex can still have a lot of respect. But you both have to be on the same page. If you’re not comfortable with the relationship and they know you want node than they do, they’re using you. And it’s not ok.