A single woman (photo/ nation.co.ke)
Relationships are good for our life. They make us happy and feel valued in the society. However, there are times when you have to make hard decisions whether to keep the relationship or discard it. This has led to many people deciding to live single lives. Single women are doing everything to live a happy life. There are things they avoid in life to maintain their single-hood life. However, many people are doing them injustice by telling them some words that keep on hurting them. Here are words you can never tell a single woman:
You are too beautiful to be singleWho said beautiful women cannot be single? One thing people fail to understand is the fact that a relationship can make you either beautiful or ugly. Telling this phrase to a woman will be provoking her. Beautiful women chose to be single because they have not yet found the soul of their hearts.
A relationship is too much workWhy do you go on telling single woman what it takes to be in a relationship? Many of single ladies were in great relationships some times in the past. They have tested all the waters in a relationship. It will be an insult telling a single woman how hard it is to keep a relationship. They know all these things and don’t want anyone telling them about it.
Stop looking for love and let love come to youMany ladies have this misconception that true love looks for people. Ladies tell this to their friends who have been heartbroken several times. Therefore, it breaks their heart even more when you tell them to stop trying looking for the perfect man. Does it mean they are not worth being loved?
I have been heartbroken many timesPeople go through many things in life. However, reminding people of their bad past is even more hurtful. If you go on telling a woman how hurtful to be heartbroken, you will be ignited that healed wound in her heart making her bleed again from her past heartbreaks.