Breakups are never easy especially when you felt like he/she was the one. After a relationship ends, one is never sure when its the right time to start dating seriously again. Here are signs that will show you are ready to jump back into the mingling pool.
1) You no longer stalk your ex often.
Following your previous partner's activity on social media is normal. However, the rate at which you do this determines whether or not you are ready to move on. Reduction in the number of times you stalk your ex in a day is a clear indication that you are letting go and ready to move on.
2. Find someone else exciting
After a break-up, most people tend to resent the opposite sex. If you are a girl you end up despising guys and vice versa. The moment you start finding a person from the other gender exciting, it shows that you are clearing anger acquired from your previous relationship. This should, therefore, act as a green light for you to start dating again.
3. No longer hating their current girlfriend/boyfriend
We all hate the new girl or guy that your ex has moved on with. Judging, despising, degrading and even checking their various social media handles is all part of the healing process. After a while, this feeling starts fading and you may even end up liking or envying them.
Once the hatred is gone, you can start dating again.
4. Hardly thinking about your ex
When the break up is fresh, we all dream about our exes coming back and asking for forgiveness. In the extremes we even picture them telling us how their lives have been miserable since the parting of ways lol. Nevertheless, once these illusions are out of the way, and your ex is the last person you think about before sleeping then you are ready to once again get into the dating game.