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It is human nature for one to always tell a lie but consistently doing so is wrong, even once in a while is not right.There are particular lies that every man will always tell once in a while whether they are married or in a relationship.Most of them tell this lies to lead you on to something that is not even concrete and that will never exist.

A popular one is that they are not happy.They will play a victim and get you to empathize with them and before you know it you will be falling for him not genuinely but because of empathy.be aware of this kind of phrase because it is a lie to try and get you on their side and fall for what they intend to do with you.

Another famous one is that they will leave their wife or girlfriend.If a guy wants to be with you, he will not tell you he will leave another woman for you, he will do it and not necessarily tell you to wait for him to leave them.Chances are he just wants you to believe in that lie, sleep with you and then leave you instead.

He will tell you he is in the marriage just for the kids.Its impossible to stay with someone you do not love just because of your kids, the environment itself will not be healthy for the children to grow up in, they can still be with you and be there for their kids.