A lonely man. [Photo/Black male]Some of us are still single and are probably wondering why. Knowing who you are is important to help you find that special someone. If you are serious about getting into a relationship its time you figure out why you are having a hard time. This will help you to find love in no time.
Your exThis can be a step back in your life especially if you still have feelings for your old guy. Moving on is the only thing that will help in finding a new love. So let go of that relationship you have with your ex.ComparisonAlways having to compare your ex with other people can be a huge bummer. Stop thinking that everyone should be like your ex. Do not forget that you two actually broke up for a reason. So he is not the ideal person you need to compare everyone with.Being negativeNo one loves talking to negative people. Negative people always attract negative energy.So if you are out there being mean and trash talking you will be single forever. Try to be fun and laugh alot you will soon attract positive people.You're isolatedStaying home where your comfort zone is will not do you a favour of meeting new people. So dress up and go outdoors and meet new people.Friend's intervention.Sometimes friends aren't good listeners and they don't know the whole story.Trust yourself because resorting to your friends experiences won’t help you make a decision.