Many partners are suffering in silence because of poor performance in bed. It does take him or her to act like a porn actor or actress to make you satisfied in bed. There is a way you can talk to your partner to improve his or her game.
Here are tips to tell him to up his game before it is too late.
Start with a check-in: One of the best ways to approach the matter is starting to talk about the same outside the bedroom. If he does not perform up to your expectations, wait until the following morning before you can ask him about the same. However, make sure you are alone while addressing the issue. Do not let anyone hear your marital problems.
Direct him to what you like: It is wise to tell your man what you like. He might be doing his best but that is not what you want at the end of the day. Remind him of the things that make you happy in the bedroom.
Find out whether he has an STD: Men rarely want to speak out. STDs can affect his performance in bed. You can convince him to accompany you to the nearest health unit for a medical checkup in order to solve the issue once and for all.
Work on redirecting, not criticizing: Criticizing him won’t take you anywhere. You should work on redirecting him rather than launching attacks after attacks on his for poor bedroom performance.