Any successful marriage depends on the input of the two of you. [Photo/.weddingserviceskenya.com//happy-couple.jpeg]
The Premier League kicked off recently, a time men disappear from their homes to go and watch their favorite teams and on the other hand women are left to their own devices since they are never football fanatics to a larger extent.
In the same spirit of sports, especially team sports like football, marriage is not different either as it is the ultimate team sport.
It comprises two people, more like a sport of table tennis.
An open message to the ladies, don’t expose his weaknesses to them that you deem as your competitors but instead protect him.
Try to do anything and everything to defend your marriage against third-party forces that may want to destroy it just like commentators in a match.
Not only should one defend marriage, but also play offense and defense together in unity.
They say the best defense is offense.
And how do we go onto the aggressive?
By being active instead of reactive.
We set goals together and work on them to improve our relationship.
We read books together that help build our marriage.
Playing as a team also means that we both understand our roles in the team.
We appreciate each other’s strengths and weaknesses and see how one’s strength can cover for the other’s weakness.
We use our differences to our advantage instead of letting them tear us apart.
We blend our different parenting styles, our different financial personalities and our different decision making styles.
That is how the two become and continue to become one.