It is a said and proven thing that house-wives have turned out to be a great threat to couples. Now if at anytime you happen to come across a group of ladies or married women having a chat, you will definitely not miss a whole discussion on how these 'house ladies' give them sleepless nights. 

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So now here comes my big problem or rather concern. Do these women in marriage ask themselves on where they went wrong?

 I guess they never do this because they believe they are always right.

 1. Women get more beautiful girls than them to work in their houses. Come to think of it, men get to a point where they need 'fresh thing'. We are all human with flaws and so sometimes your man may get tempted to get the house-girl to bed.

2. Allowing her to wear short and tight dresses. This for sure makes any man tempted.

3. Washing your man's clothes. Women should get this clear. You all got the big responsibility to ensure your man looks clean and smart. At any point you transfer the duties to your house-girl then it is an added advantage to her.

 4.Telling her your bedroom stories. Some women will want to show out how experienced they are in bed. Honestly speaking, these house-girls are very keen and so they will use your weaknesses to win your man. If they get to bed and she does her best, then all is done. Your man will leave you. 

They are making it happen in their own and best way. So to all women out there, stop lamenting, wake up and smell the coffee. Work out on the best means of keeping your men.