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Some people are single because they choose to be. They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single due to the unfortunate circumstances of their lives. They may have just gotten out of a meaningful relationship or have dated relentlessly and just haven’t found someone with whom they’re truly compatible. 

 Here are some reasons why you might be single

You are too picky

This is the main common denominator as to why many people who have come of age and are still single. As much it is important to create principles and standards and stick to them, sometimes it is essential to make exceptions so as to allow someone who means well into your life. And by no means should you lower your standards to the level that you are too uncomfortable with the relationship as that will be toxic for the relationship. Remember everybody has flaws, no one is perfect

You keep on attracting the wrong people

You tend to choose less-than-ideal relationship partners. You may establish an unsatisfying relationship by selecting a person who isn’t emotionally connected to you. Do not keep up with a partner who does not love you just because of convenience or any other selfish reasons. The feelings of attraction and compassion have to be mutual for a relationship to work out well.

You possess low self-esteem

That inner voice that keeps on reminding you that you are too short, too fat, too dark etc. Is probably what is preventing you from scoring that ideal companion as you tend to perceive that you are not good enough for them. If take heed of such thoughts you will not be able to approach that potential partner with confidence or even choose to stay away from them and hence retreat to your lonely cocoon.