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There are many ways to view relationships; the key is that we've all got to find ourselves in self-examination when relationships fail or don't work out.

However, there are times, regardless of who's fault, it's time to examine why it isn't working out.

There comes a point where making your point becomes harmful. You are always ranting at your partner whether it’s you or your partner who is on the wrong and you end up saying things that you will regret. 

You might say things out of anger but they end up destroying your relationship.

You refuse to accept that you'll need to make some changes in your life "I'm not going to change for anybody" is always the extreme of not knowing what "How can I be better?" You expect others to put up with your problems "You should accept my flaws and all" is only half true. As much as you should not change who you are, if you are the problem, you should consider changing.

You want what you deserve but you do not want to work to earn it, because you have too much pride.Your pride is standing in the way of your happiness because you want things to work according to your ways and yours only.

Finally, you keep other people up to date with every little detail in your relationship, as much as you may need to share a problem with someone, choose your friends wisely and don't air out all dirty laundry in your relationship to others.

Consider amending some of the above behaviors and see the impact it will have in your relationship.