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There are always two sides to a break-up, the good and the ugly and most of the times we choose to go ugly because of the anger, and the resentment that you feel towards this person.
As much as they have wronged you, there are things that one should never say during a break up if they are mature enough to accept the circumstances, including the following.
Even if there is some truth to this, never tell the person you are breaking up with that you have been using them. Be compassionate and do not add insult to the injury, no matter who went wrong, you don’t have to make it sink in their throats that you have been using them and they are now expired.
Never ever tell someone that you made a mistake in being with them even though at times the fact is too obvious because all they have done is hurt you. Its time to go your separate ways and you don’t have to play victim too much to make them feel guilty.
Never tell them they deserve someone better. This statement usually sounds like you are not decided on how you want this break up to turn up. You will be asking them to stay with you indirectly by being the victim. Avoid it.