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My name is Stela and I stay in Kibera Laini Saba. I have a boyfriend of three years. When we are together he is great. However, he does not want to introduce me to his friends or family. Whenever there is a gathering or event at his place and I happen to know, he always feigns sickness and says he will not attend. We’ve also quarrelled at some point because he says I’m too nagging about going to meet his family. I don’t know what to do.

Please advise.

Hi Stela.

Those who drive in this city will tell you that it is a big offense to overlap on the highways. Every driver must stay in their lanes for a good flow of traffic. Those with good guzzlers use the inner lanes while those with Hitler's VW's try the service lane with other rogue users. 

Stick to your lane. 

You and him are probably travelling in the same direction but in different lanes and at different speeds. The thing could be as simple as, you do not meet the threshold to be presented at home. So scout around your Laini Saba for someone's son who adores you and save yourself more heartbreaks.