It's good to take things as they are calling a spade a spade, and then afterward you can try modifying it to fit the name 'spoon’. As a man, you should own up to your mistakes when you are wrong and learn to apologize where you go wrong. Relationships are killed by ego. We have friends who are so defiant to the rules of relationships to the extent of quoting,"Mwanaume ni mfuko,sura tutaangalia ya John Legend" and another would go like,"Mwanamke ni urembo,tabia tutavumilia",that's insanity of the highest order, to begin with.
On the basis of treating ladies, she doesn't necessarily have to be your woman but let's just give credit where it is due. Respect them and admit to the fact that we cannot live without them. Life's most persistent and urgent question is, what are you doing for others? A candle will never lose anything by lighting up another, in that case, it will never be enough to love yourself more than you love others. Unless when necessity is the cause, then be it.We have no interest for people who are not concerned about my welfare, rather all they care about is either, what I do, who I am or the most common one, what I have.
Those you can trust and be sure to open up with, share secrets, comfort each other in times of melancholy, crack any kind of jokes and make laughs with.