Some secrets are better off left in the past.[Photo/dating life]
Most people claim that two people committed to each other should not have any secrets. Some other couples argue that its more healthier when some secrets are just left in the past. However you want to see if some secrets will always be out there to hurt your relationship. But remember that relationships are built on trust and honesty.You have cheated in this relationship or in a past one.This type of secret can destroy your relationship completely. This will never be easy to come clean about. Ofcourse you should not cheat when you are in a relationship but having an affair and keeping it a secret can affect your relationship.You can’t be committed to your future relationship if you are constantly worrying you might be caught. Its better to just come clean.You had an emotional affairOfcourse its perfectly normal to have an emotional frienship but overstepping and learning the boundaries should be key. This emotional friendship can actually turn into a sexual affair. So do not give your spouse a chance to question that kind of friendship.Financial issues and spending moneyYou don't have to tell your spouse every time you spend a penny. The problem comes in when you start spending too much or even lying about your financial status. This can actually cause alot of relationships to break. Its good to be transparent about your financial status especially if you are living together.Any history of STIsThis may seem not so important but it is. Spouses should make it a habit of telling each other of their sexual history. Do not be shy be open of any STI/STDs you have ever had or have . Dealing with it upfront is better than the other person finding out.Any history of addiction.Addictions are considered a family disease because they can have such a major impact on everyone who is close to the addict or former addict.That is hard to keep a secret from your partner, who will be both hurt and betrayed if you don’t trust him with such important information about yourself. It could be Alcohol, gambling or something else just be honest.