Every man's dream after landing a job and becoming financially stable is settling down and having a good family thereafter.
And unlike in the past where divorces were very rare, nowadays such cases are high.
The cases may be as a result of violence, mpango wa kando, financial problems e.g. one partner loses a job, abandoned children where as children have run away from home because of irresponsible parents.
What this people don't know is that there are just some little things that can make their marriage work.
Here are five tips for a happy family:
1. Sit beside each other and listen
When their is a problem sit beside each other and try to come up with a solution and make sure you both agree and always make sure you discuss everything together as a family. Sitting beside each other shows that their is still love and unity in that family.
2. Known your partner strength and weaknesses
Knowing someone's strength and weakness is better as you always know that if I do this, my partner will be mad or sad or when I do that he will be happy and this may help reduce cases of violence.
3. Take a vacation as a family
Find some time go out and enjoy. Spend sometime together and leave some matters aside and these will help you to know each other even better.
4. Reduce secrets
This is what breaks a lot of families. Just share what is on your mind with your partner, don't hide things from one another because when that thing you are hiding comes to light, it will be very bad for you. You can even share what you earn although many don't like it but if you trust one another, why not?
5. Finally hold prayers together
This is just simple. A family that prays together stays together. Even though their is nothing perfect and there is no perfect family, however, try to do something so that you can look at what you have achieved or done to keep that family. You can smile and say that at least you got something perfectly right in your life.