When you meet a lady in a nightclub, it is not always automatic that she will go home with you. Some prefer spending time with you and later go separate ways. Some will cheat you and even rob you along the way. This they do in collaboration with thugs or “their“ taxi guys. Some will prefer a lodging in town for any unfinished business. Only a few will want to go to your place and it is very hard to spot such types. It requires a little bit of experience to choose the right lady who will prefer you finish the business at your place.

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Too drunk

When a lady gulps beer or whichever alcoholic drink that she is taking in order to get drunk very fast, she is not willing to go to your place. In fact, she is not even willing to know more about you. She just wants to waste your money and remain in the club with her girls. By getting too drunk and unruly, she knows that her girls will come to her rescue and either choose to restrain her inside the club or take her home. A lady who is interested in you will go slow on the drink and get to know more about you. She does not want to go to your place before knowing your character. Are you going to assault her at your place or are you going to treat her with dignity? Once she has confirmed that you are a gentleman, she will not hesitate when you ask her to accompany you home.

Less talk

A woman who listens more than she talks is likely to go home with you compared to one who parrots the whole time. By listening to you, she is simply gauging whether you are the nice type of the bully type. She wants to get as much information from you as possible before agreeing to go home with you. A woman who talks more than she listens is not interested in you or your place. She is there to enjoy her time in the club and later get back to her place.

Take away food

Another test you can do to determine whether a woman you met in the club is willing to go home with you or not is to suggest some takeaway dinner. If she declines, then it shows she does not want to go to your place? If she prefers eating in the club then she is not going anywhere near your place. A woman who is willing to accompany you home will go for the takeaway food. She will even suggest cooking for you at your place.