Dating again after a breakup can be hard. It's a whole new process of trying to get to know someone-their likes and interests.
It is a time for your potential fiancee to also learn about your likes and interests. To both parties, dating simply provides a platform where you find out whether both your likes and interests blend in.
It is easy choosing to remain single other than going through the hassle. However, singlehood does tend to get lonely and a companion to help take that away is an idea welcomed anytime.
The only hindrance in such a situation is whether the time is right to get back into the dating pool.
Here are some signs to help you know whether you are ready to date again or not.
1. You are not angry anymore
A break up can incite feelings of anger towards an ex-partner which is normal. Maybe an ex-lover wronged you or things ended in a sour manner. If you are past being angry with your ex and don't hold any hard feelings towards them, then, you are ready to get back on the saddle.
2. You don't think about your ex as much as you used to
They are in the past and you would like to keep them there. All you can do now is cherish the good times and let bygones be bygones.
3. You don't play the blame game anymore.
Whatever your reasons for breaking up with your ex-lover is, if you identify where you played a part in the relationship dwindling; you are ready to date again. It means you acknowledged your shortcomings and have learned from the experience so you now understand the dos and don'ts in your next relationship.
4. You start getting attracted to other people
When you break up with someone, it is hard to see anybody else in an attractive way because you are giving yourself time to heal. If you're completely over your ex, you will get attracted to other people.
5. You don't squirm at the thought of going on a date with somebody who is not your ex
If you can get past the thought of going on a date without getting squirmish at the fact that they are not your ex, it is an indication you are ready to date again.