A couple in the fields. [Photo/africangoddess.com]Love subjective and something diverse. Choosing someone to love does not need a checklist although some people end up loving others in those terms.

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As much as there is no one who is perfect, there is one thing the person you should love, should be.

He or she needs to be someone who won't give up on you or throw away what you share easily.Here are reasons why you should keep them in your life.

Someone who won't give up on you will never quit no matter how hard or thick things get.They will always be by your side no matter what happens.Even when you go wrong, they will not make you feel bad or guilty, they will find a way around it and tell you in the best way and you will not feel offended about it and make you realize your mistake and correct it.

They will love you for who you truly are and will never force you to change to who they want you to be. Nothing ever comes with the advantages alone and they know that they will try and accommodate you they way you are and help you make corrections where necessary. They will help you make a better version of yourself and not change you to a new person.

This person is not one to hold grudges and make you feel guilty by reminding you of the past all the time.They forgive and move on.Thy focus on the future and not the past.As much as you want them to do all these for you,you should avoid taking advantage of them because you know they will forgive because everyone has a limit to tolerance.