There is always a target for every project. It is the same case with relationships. We all enter into one with some goals, with the common one being to end up in a marriage.
Sometimes your goals might differ from those of your partner. There are signs which show you not for a common purpose. Some of them are:
1. There are signs of violence in your relationship
Violence in a relationship is not. If things are getting dangerous in your relationship, you feel threatened now and then, this is a sign you should exit the relationship completely.
2. You feel pressured to move in
A relationship should be between adults, who can make their own decision. If he/s is giving you unnecessary pressure, then it is a big no. You should only do it when both of you are ready. If you feel forced, you should quit.
3. You are not ready to give up your current routine
If you are still into doing what you enjoy most, for instance, going out with your girls and boys until late night, and not ready to stop the routine, it means you not ready.
4. You enjoy your personal space
If he/she is not the one you easily share with, living together might not be for you, so making it happen will only be a bigger risk.
5. It’s for financial reasons
If you are moving in because you are broke, because he/s is paying your bill, then that is not a good reason. You will not remain broke all the time. It is one of the wrong reasons of living together.