Friends on bed. [Photo/ singleblackmale.org]
Loneliness may at times drive one to engage in one night stands.
We all know one night stands are always for fun and nothing more, right?
This therefore calls for some rules to guide you in case you find yourself in such a situation. Here are simple rules everyone should consider for one night stands:
Always use protectionOne night stands are always for satisfaction and nothing serious. More so, this should die the moment you walk out of that place you meet your “savior.” Using protection will save you from many things, which include unplanned pregnancies and diseases. Use protection whenever you are pushed to have casual sex.
Be specific, be selective
Don’t just have sex with anyone available, make the night what you want it to be, with the right person, perfect for the moment.
Also, one night stands should never with people who you know are dating or your closest friends as this will cause friction between you two.
Relax
You can only enjoy this if you are comfortable and zero percent nervous.
If you agree for a one night stand with a person, give them their time to do magic with you.
Make sure you satisfy all your pleasures so that you don’t feel lonely any day soon.
Don’t back out, just do it
When your desires have pushed you to the wall for a one night stand, just do it.
Backing up will cause you more harm than good as you will keep thinking about it the whole day, the whole night.
This will only make you worse and end up picking on a wrong person for this one night stand.
Remember, this is not personal
After you are done, put on your clothes and leave.
Cut all communications with this person as you don’t have to take the one night saga to the next talking level.
Don’t talk about it with this person after you have finished that day.v