Handling a stubborn woman has always been a problem for many men here in Nairobi.
Marriage should be enjoyable and make the two partners happy. However, when a woman becomes stubborn she gives her man a hard time which might attract other bad things between them. A stubborn and arrogant woman is that who will refuse to change her mind about certain issues, ideas or actions with no good reasons. However, don’t be worried as here are simple ways to deal with such group of women:
Understand why she is stubborn The number one step in solving a problem is understanding the source of that problem. Try to reason and see things from her own perspectives. You will learn the reasons behind her persistence on her ideas and actions. Maybe it’s you who had been clouded by personal interests, anger or even frustration in making your ideas which only hurts her. Solving a problem requires understanding it and when you understand your woman, the better for you as you will work towards the same direction.
Pick your battleWe can’t win everything right? Well, men should always understand that not everything they suggest or say will please their women. If your woman doesn’t back down in some things, it will be a good thing if a man stops to argue, nag, yell or even complain as these things only worsen the situation. Men should always have priorities and be ready to lose the rest.
Spend quality time togetherA woman might be stubborn because she feels neglected. A marriage means spending quality time with your wife. Through this way, you wife will feel loved, appreciated and even cared for. She will avoid being stubborn not to push you away.
Understand one anotherThere is no great thing in a relationship than understanding each other. If your woman is stubborn, it’s because you don’t understand her and that’s why you find her stubborn. Understanding each other will help the two of you in solving out issues well and in the most appropriate way not to hurt anyone or even piss them off.
Take a positive approachHostility only worsens things. Keeping it cool helps you to focus and solve the issue properly and reasonably. There is nothing a soft and good talk can’t solve. More so, don’t solve issues when either your wife or you is very angered. Wait till you acquire your calm before talking things out.