While being in love or in a relationship feels great, it doesn't always guarantee a happy union. We have all grown up differently depending on who our parents are and what they taught us. However, some of us grow physically but immaturity lingers around all we do. Immaturity is number one killer of unions whether relationships or marriages. There are always obvious signs of an immature partner be it a man or a woman. Here are the signs that you have hooked up an immature man:
Tells you that he is the head occasionally
May I let you remember that, even when you disobey or disrespect your man, you are very much aware that he is the head. Therefore, he need not shout or scream about it. It's important for him to know when and how to be firm and put his feet on the issues. However, he shouldn't become a nagging husband just to prove that he is the man of the house.
Rejects food when there is an issue
Mr. husband gives you money for food and when it is prepared he refuses to eat just because he is angry. This is one of the greatest sign of immaturity in a marriage. It's time to grow up. As a mature man, you should never abandon food or your home for any reason.
Issues threats
Beating, verbally abusing you, issuing threats of divorce or bragging about marrying another wife doesn't make him a man. His strength is in his ability to tame his tongue and control his fist. He should always play the "mature man" part even when you are acting as the "childish woman".
Reports you to friends and family
When you offend your man, he should correct and talk through things. He doesn't have to tell everybody about your mistakes to paint you black and sell you cheap such that he will not be able to redeem you back.
Keeps malice
Is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them nag, criticize, abuse and call you names in public. Well, it may make him look like a "big boy" who is in control but he is not going to gain anything good from it, rather, his home will be a den of insults and confrontations.
Doesn't help with the house chores
I must admit here that its the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home. Probably he doesn't know how stressful the house chores are and how they can increase pressure on you as a wife. However, if he truly cares, just checking on you while you are busy could encourage and sooth you. This makes him a good example to the kids especially the boys.