Whatever you say and do may build or destroy your relationship. Women in most cases ruin their relationships with words as they tend to speak more than men.

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Unfortunately, some things women do really put off men and can end up ruining your love life. Some of the very ugly mistakes that women commit in relationships include;

Comparison

Comparison is an ugly game and has nothing better to offer. Comparing your man with your ex or his male friends is a dangerous mistake as it indicates that you are not contented with him. If you do not like him, then just look for someone else who can suit you well.

Shouting at him

Whether you are in an argument and he has really annoyed you, just play it cool. Men have an ego that does not allow them to take shoutings from a woman. Take your time and calm down first, wait until he is relaxed then discuss your issues.

Trying to change him

It is very difficult to change someone's personality. Do not try to force him to change who he is as he may never change. Just accept and learn to live with him or look for a man with the character that you can tolerate.

Overly dependent

No man wants a woman who is entirely dependent on them. A woman must at least be able to earn some money to sort out her issues and pay some bills rather than depending on her man to do everything.

Let him be the man

He is the man, so just let him be. If he insists on fixing the bulb or repairing your broken window, give him the pleasure to do it. He wants to feel that he is your man and the last thing he wants from you is being denied the chance to play his role.

You don't give him time

It is not only women who need time to spend with men. Men too want to have some time with their women. So, don't be so much to yourself and spend all the time with your girlfriends and family until you forget that he needs you as well.