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So many women are single and searching for men to marry them, never mind most also have children. But the reason why most ladies are unable to get men to marry them is unrealistic expectations and placing the bar too high for most men thus leaving them with around 10% of all men population to compete for.
You find a lady wants a well cultured man, a financially stable man whose stability they define since with some it means the man should be earning over 50,000, driving own car and so forth then want a man who is smart, intelligent, tall, handsome, who knows how to treat a woman, who can take her on outings and holidays, with love like they normally see on soap operas. Others want a man who will rescue them from their financial situation, or mend their broken hearts. They come into relationships with a bitter edge of “all men are the same” just because one man broke her heart, thus the relationship has literally ended before it even began.
Ladies, you need to realize perfect men do not exist, except in movies and soap opera dramas. Realize that great relationships are nurtured with time and through effort. Realize that each man is unique and if one man broke your heart, it does not mean all men are bad. Realize that men too have their past, but a majority have moved on whereas most ladies simply tag along with their bitter past. Realize that “there is no rich man”, but riches come with time and hard work.
Above all, note that if you want love, be ready to love too, successful relationships are such you give your 100% since the old saying goes, “you reap what you sow.”