The festive season is here- apparently with all the fun that's associated with it.
It's that time of the year when people living in urban areas travel upcountry to join rural folk for celebration.
It's that period when long distance lovers spare time to travel and meet.
Although we know that December holidays are meant to celebrate the birth of Jesu Christ, it's obvious that people capitalize on this time to engage in explosive sex.
Now, as you prepare to travel and meet that lover you've spent a long time without seeing, what exactly do you need to know before engaging in that sexual encounter that you may find yourself in.
Preparation begins now.
Firstly, begin by loving yourself. powerofpositivity.com says loving others intimately entails an emotional vulnerability. In most cases, we fail to give love (sex) to others because we don't feel lovable. So you wanna perfectly nail it, begin by polishing yourself.
Secondly, remember the best sex you have ever had. Memories of that good time when you had sex alone plays an instrumental role in increasing your libido for that sexual encounter.
Besides, eat nuts. These products contain zinc, a mineral with diverse sex benefits. So you wanna go for a romp? Try cashew nuts, walnuts, ground-nuts and almonds, pair up with your partner and you will be amazed by the high level of your libido.
Fourthly, think sexy thoughts. The brain plays an important role in jumpstarting your sexual urge. So take time and give some thought to those things that turn you on as well as make your partner look attractive. For instance, look for things that make them great people. Maybe their body structure.
On the other hand, always try to open up. This will give you room to get free with your partner and subsequently share thoughts on anything.
"Honest communication is important for establishing intimacy with your partner," powerofpositivity.com says.
"When you feel free to be open, you trust more. This makes you more likely to be receptive to your partner’s advances."
Sixth, make 'dirty' joke. Laughter is regarded as a way of creating a strong bond with a partner and making these jokes is one surest way of arousing that sexual desire. Joke about everything, so long as the joke(s) doesn't/do not hurt the other person. So start by establishing exactly what makes them happy.
Seventh and most importantly, make use of all your senses. Some individuals chose to close their eyes during intimacy, for instance during kissing. Closing your eyes may make you miss an intimate moment where eye contact is significant. Leave them open. This act alone increases your level of arousal.
"Breathe in through your nose to use your sense of smell, listen for your partner’s moans, feel their fingers and hands, and taste the salt from their skin," says powerofpositivity.com.
Besides, touch more. "Just a touch on your partner’s shoulder, hand, or back is enough to get them thinking of sex."
Second lastly, avoid soy products. This mostly works in women as soy contains phytoestrogen which blocks the estrogen receptors in the body implying the body would not be able to absorb the normal estrogen.
Lastly, just say yes, even when you are not in the mood. This is self-explanatory. Just say yes. Just give.