More and more people are getting hookups online compared to on the ground. However, it’s tough being a man with a Facebook account. Every time you log in you see pictures of fine ladies. You wonder what to do. There’s always a high chance that you will make a fool out of yourself by approaching a girl on Facebook. Here are tips for attracting her attention online:
1. Avoid cliches. When it comes to seduction, guys never learn. We keep saying the same things and using the same phrases. A girl posts a nice pic and all the 50 comments from niggas are revolving around the same phrase, “You are so hot!” When most guys hit the inbox, all they talk about is common things. Talk smart and be out of the ordinary. Ladies love men who pose a challenge, men who don’t feel intimidated. Your move should have a theatrical quality to it. That will make it memorable, and make your aggressiveness seem pleasant.
2. Appear harmless but cool. It is unwise to usher in the sex subject every moment a chat picks up. Many ladies don’t love dirty chats. Only a few do. The fact that these ladies don’t love dirty chats doesn’t mean they don’t like getting dirty. You’ll be surprised at what the most principled chic can do behind closed doors. So don’t mess up on your journey to the closed doors.
3. Let the chat be about her, not you. Another mistake men make is engaging in mild bragging. Don’t try too hard to prove to her that you are a force to reckon with. It doesn’t matter where you work or how popular you are. Just throw in hints at intervals. Give obscure, vague hints of the cool things you do. Let her ask then confirm them. Let her get impressed all by herself, don’t try to impress her.
4. Take it offline. After your online chemistry has grown, move out of Facebook. By this I don’t mean closing your Facebook account, I mean getting her number and meeting for a real date. Facebook has its technological constraints. At times, you’ll find yourself desperately waiting for a reply. You’ll keep refreshing the inbox all the time. But once you have her number and you are sure she likes you, you can call her, WhatsApp her, text her and meet up with her. And that’s when you let your manly instincts do everything.