I believe no man is perfect and so we are prone to mistakes and many things in a relationship. A good relationship is meant to make you feel happy, secure, cared for, respected and above all you feel the love itself. If you are not feeling any of the above then your relationship is toxic to you.
A toxic relationship will lower and destroy your self-esteem in your life. You will no longer have the courage to speak confidently before people. Take for instance your man is constantly telling you to dress better, change skin color or have bigger breasts. That will kill your confidence in some way you will not understand.
Other effects of a toxic relationship include consuming your energy since you will spend most of your time crying, eating nothing and running all over to impress your partner. It will breed negativity in you since you will always believe that there is something always wrong with you. You can’t even do something since you believe it is wrong. A toxic relationship will increase stress level due to negativity in your life since the one you love most sees nothing special in you.
This toxic will also affect your relationship with other people or your family. This is why if you sense that your relationship is toxic then quit immediately. When you see signs that your relationship is not favoring you then quit before it goes any further or next level.
I know critics will tell me that, give time to your to man or woman because people will always change. Yes people change later, I agree, but for how long will you take before your partner changes? How many people have we seen get burnt with water or oil, some have their private parts cut off, others are literally beaten to death. Many hang themselves or commit suicide due to relationship issues. I would say that if you sense your relationship isn’t good enough then quit immediately. If you believe that your partner can change try your luck. Never let it get any further when the seat gets too hot to sit on it.