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Most women assume that playing hard to get is important especially when you are dating someone new. You choose not to look all young and desperate for this man and end up playing hard to get. Some ladies have mastered the art of playing hard to get and it might a wrong idea due to a number of issues.You will most definitely attract the wrong menHard to get game will not make a man love you, instead you will be his competitor. Instead of falling in love with you he will just chase after your heart. You will now indulge him in a game and he will make sure to win. The guys will to prove to himself that he can actually be with you rather than wanting to be with you.He will think you are not availableWhen you pretend to wait to respond to his messages and not pick up his calls he might think that you are not available. You may actually end up chasing him away. The guy will just conclude that you have a boyfriend or you are just not interested in him.You will push him away quicklyThe funny thing is that men are more attracted to women who respond quickly. Men tend ti believe that  kind of women will always be there for them. So you should think twice about playing this game if you really want a man in your life.