The hard and bitter truth about cheating Photo/MojiDelano.com
Being cheated on by far has to be one of the worst feelings ever. However it is important to understand what you'll have to deal with if you do engage with your 'mpango wa kando' , here are a few things you may want to consider.
1. The grass is not greener on the other side. Instead of seeking thrills outside the relationship, tackle relationship issues head-on and work on making it flourish.
2. The constant cycle of lies. Infidelity requires one to constantly have to cover their tracks. Before you know it your caught in a web of lies and imagine how it will feel when the truth comes to light.
3. Risk of infections. As monotonous as this may sound, experimenting with your 'mpango wa kando' could leave you vulnerable to sexually transmitted infections. Now imagine if you were to pass it own to your significant other?
4. Ties that bind. Trust is key to a successful relationship and when lost its near impossible to earn it back. Before you decide to cheat ask yourself, Are you willing to give up a successful relationship for a one or two night stand?
Truth be told there is no valid reason as to why one would need to cheat.