Money is such a sensitive topic that we cannot just avoid talking about. The majority of our mothers advise their daughters to look at the money issue in a relationship with a man before she says I do. If a man is mean with his money when you’re dating, you can be sure he will not be generous once you’re married.
Our parents were facing issues of men being selfish with their money. Unfortunately, the situation has escalated to men not just being mean with their money but to also their woman’s money as well. These are guys who borrow their girlfriend’s money and do not return. When asked about it they get mad and furious.
The second way men display their meanness is when you don’t pay for items your girlfriend sells to you. Being her boyfriend does not give you the right to increase her provision for bad debt in her business simply because you don’t pay for goods you take on credit from her shop. A guy borrows your money and does not return. Never lend money to a guy you are dating.Money does not grow on trees and women work really hard to get it. If a woman is kind enough to loan you cash without any interest, her man should be grateful enough to return the whole amount without having to be reminded.
There are certain circumstances you might find yourself in that make it impossible to return the money on time. Please let her know you remember your debt to her and you are determined to give it back. A woman is a rational being and will not give credit that has a high risk of turning into a bad debt.