Your wife or girlfriend will always be thinking of something that she won’t tell you. She might fear that it will either offend you or she doesn’t want to make you feel bad about anything. She might be wondering whether she should tell you or you will use common sense and stop a habit or do something right. Here are some of the things that your wife or girlfriend is thinking about but won’t tell.

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‘I wish he is a bit romantic’- your woman will be probably thinking how unromantic you are at some point in life. This includes sending sweet messages to her, holding hands, kissing her, sometimes giving her little surprises and making her a nice dinner. You might be that kind of man who only thinks of work and money affairs to extend that you forget your wife or girlfriend needs love.

‘He should be a bit good in bed’ you might be a minute man or a long time man in bed but that does not mean your wife likes it either. Too long sex can injure your wife’s vagina or too short sex will make her crave for more but it would be a bit embarrassing for her to tell you that to your face. Always be considerate and use common sense.

‘I wish he was a bit taller, shorter or I wish he had a smaller penis or bigger penis’ you might have all the qualities that your wife or girlfriend needs but one thing about you will always disqualify you. Women can live with one of the disqualifications as long as you show them, true love. Let it never worry you.

‘He needs new clothes’ your wife would be probably wondering when you are going to change your wardrobe. Sometimes you might have the money but you spent it on other things rather than buying yourself clothes. Your wife or girlfriend will take action and buy you a few clothes without telling you anything. Use your head, she means your clothes are too old to use.

‘You are a bit messy’ if you are the kind of man who leaves one shoe in the sitting room and another man in the bedroom then you are messy. Your wife would be doing every cleaning for you but she will be wondering what kind of person you are. It is good to be a bit organized so that your children will be organized too. Don’t leave the work for your wife alone she needs time to rest too.

‘I wish he could give me a little attention’ you might be too busy doing very many things such that you never find time for your wife or girlfriend. Each time you are in the house is all about work, business, friends, and other people to extend that your wife feels that she is alone in the relationship. You give her no calls, no texts no nothing until she decides to leave. It is not her will but you forced her to leave.

‘I wish he could give me some little privacy’ when you keep on invading your wife’s phone messages, Whats app, facebook, twitter or other social networks, she will get angry but won’t tell you. She would be wondering when you going to give her full trust since she has eyes on you alone.

‘I wish he could take me out’ taking your wife out is not such a big deal since the two of you have decided to spend the rest of your life together. Have time to take her out at least once in a while to break the monotony.