A heartbroken woman [Photo/ zumi.co.ke]
Life is all about experience, but if you have never been dumped, then you lack the experience of how it feels to be rejected. Here are crucial things you will learn when someone special leaves your life:
How long it takes to get over your partner
Honestly, this will depend on how much you loved your partner. This is not something that will happen overnight. You will go through a process to take these people from your minds. More so, rub their memories from your head.
How important self-love is
When someone walks away from you, your life will be left for only you. This is the time you will realize the importance of self-love. You will have to assure yourself that you are still worth a better life, as self-love reminds you how strong you were before meeting this person, and you can still be that strong or even stronger.
Everything happens for a reason
A break up comes with reasons. Once you determine the reason you loved one walked away from you, you will make sure this isn’t your downfall the next time you get into a new relationship.
Which friends really care about you
When you are at your worst state, this is the time you will get to know your real friends. Real friends will never leave you alone during such times. They will come with cookies for you, take you out and even encourage you that all will be okay.
How it feels to be at your worst state
Being dumped will make one feel very sad. You will cry and curl alone on your bed whole day, whole night. More so, you might push friends away and even not notice. These could affect you negatively and it might take time to regain your normal.