"All men are the same" is the statement used by women to describe their male counterparts. This is especially because men are believed to be cheaters and thus for women you can't find a single faithful soul on this planet.
But before we direct the whole blame on the cheating men, could it also be possible that some women are the reason as to why their men cheat on them in relationships?
Below are some of the reasons as to why men cheat which ladies should beware o;
1. He does not love you. If a man cheats on you dear girlfriend, it's crystal clear that he does not respect you nor love you. Maybe you're just a pass time girl or rather what they call a side chick. If a man loves you, you'll know just by how he treats you both in private and public places. If he goes spanking you in public or touching you all over, better watch out for that is disrespect of the highest order for you could just be an object of pleasure to him. If you happen to find such a man cheating on you, don't be surprised; it's expected.
2. A nagging woman. Even the holy Bible disregards a nagging wife and none likes to be nagged anyway. Dear beloved fellow women, thou shall not nag your man. He too needs time for himself and for his buddies. Before you met him, he would go golfing and watching football with his boys. Don't be mad therefore if he goes out with his boys and if he cannot be with you all the time. Remember he has a life too apart from you. If you keep calling and text him to come stay with you all the time, he may think you so idle that you do not have other things in life to attend to apart from going out with him and watching the movies. If you are such a lady, you could just be the reason he's cheating on you. He might have found a focused lady who knows well what she wants in her life besides having a man.
3. Lust. Some men are simply lustrous and one woman is an under dose to them. It's just saddening if you find yourself relating with such a man in the name of love. These men find every Njeri and Atieno physically attractive - N/B, physically. This means they do not care what's in between the ears of a woman for all they are interested in is from the shoulders downwards. These are the men who do not care about the age, education or occupation of a woman. Their sole purpose is to lay a woman and you got no business being in a relationship with such a man no matter what amount of love you feel for him and transforming him is not easy either.
4. Unfaithful lady. Do not be surprised that women cheat - they just like men are not angels. If you cheat on him, you have just given him the gate pass to cheat. Relationships are about trust and if trust is breached, love goes sour. There is no reason as to why a partner should remain faithful if their counterpart is not. Though they may take quitting as an alternative, some will prefer hitting back by cheating also.
5. Men who are just not serious. Be cautious of men who are never serious in relationships. These are the kind who gets into relationships for weird reasons including money- men are gold diggers too. Others will get into a relationship to heal the wounds of a past broken relationship. Since these men are not in the relationship because of love, they find it hard to remain faithful for they cannot fake their love forever. If you have ever had a cheating boyfriend, could be due to one of these reasons and you need to watch out so that in future you can run away from trouble before it finds you. Remember once bitten, twice shy and thrice a fool.