A happy lady. [Photo/beyondblack.com]
Being happy comes at a cost that many people would never imagine.To be content or be pleased with who you are and where you are there are things that you must have to go through. Here are a couple of things that every person you see smile must have experienced in their life.They have grieved, not necessarily crying over someone who has died but they have had to cry over losing someone from their lives, most of the times you will find that this person was not good for them but they could not let go.The moment they let go they become happier and must experience the feeling of loss.Being vulnerable is one thing that affects this kind of people, happy people.They may at times give chances to people in their lives and they end up being disappointed and bridge to love that they had opened will close. Being vulnerable sometimes teaches you not to trust everyone and for you to be strong in the future.Happy people have to learn to be understanding because most of the times what you do to people is what they reciprocate to you.This way you will be understood and you will be much happier at the end of the day.